Self-Discipline
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This weekly study is sponsored anonymously in the merit of a refuah shleima to those injured in the Surfside (Miami Beach) building collapse yesteday, thursday, June 24, 2021.
“Everyone is devastated and in shock. I used to live there, a few buildings down and this could have been mine too, May G-d give strength to the survivors and their families.” said Rabbi Tank.
May Hashem help those who are missing: Tzvi Nosson Hakohen ben Devorah, Yaakov Reuven Hakohen ben Devorah, Moshe Ben Toba, Moshe Ben Shoshana, Arie Leib Ben Ita, Ilan Ben Kalman, Leib Ben Shoshana, Chaim Ben Sara, Malka Bat Sarah Rochel, Yisroel Tzvi Yosef Ben Toiba, Ita bat Miriam, Tzvi Daniel Ben Yehudis, Sarah bat Ida, Nancy bat Sofia, Franky Ben Nancy, Jay ben Nancy, Deborah bat Chaia, Yehuda Aryeh ben Feiga Rivka, Rut bat Sarah, Nicole bat Andrea and Estella bas Linda Leah.
Pray for Refuah Sheimah: Rafael ben Gladis
Continue Pray: Mariana bat Zulay
Condolences to: Luzia, Maely and Abraham Arrais and their family for the loss of Yehoshua ben Tovah. May G-d give you strength and confort during this difficult time.
Mazal Tov to: Graziela Abrikian Telles for her birthday.
Balak
Numbers 22:2 - 25:9
This week's portion is one of the most fascinating psychologically-revealing portions in the whole Torah! Bilaam, a non-Jewish prophet, was granted a level of prophecy close to Moshe's level of prophecy. The Almighty gave Bilaam these powers so that the nations of the world could not say at some point in the future, "If we had a prophet like Moshe, we too would have accepted the Torah and would have lived according to it." Bilaam is an intriguing character -- honor-driven, arrogant and self-serving. Unfortunately, not too unique amongst mankind.
Balak, the king of Moav, wanted to hire Bilaam to curse the Jewish people for a fortune of money. It is interesting that Balak believed in G-d and the power of invoking a curse from G-d, yet thought that G-d would change His mind about His Chosen People. (G-d is not a man who changes his mind). Bilaam was very desirous to accept the assignment to curse the Jews -- more for the profit motive than the prophet motive.
The Almighty allowed Bilaam to go to Balak (cautioning him to only say what G-d told him). The Almighty gives every person free-will and allows us to go in the direction that we choose. Three times Bilaam tried to curse us and three times the Almighty placed blessings in his mouth. Balak was furious! So, Bilaam gave him advice with hopes of collecting his fee -- "If you want to destroy the Jewish people, entice the men with Moabite women and tell the women not to submit until the men bow down to an idol." Balak followed the advice and consequently the Almighty brought a plague against the Jewish people because the men fell for Bilaam's plot. We see from this that the Almighty hates licentiousness and idol worship.
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"Let me die the death of the righteous, and let my end be like his"
(Numbers 23:10).
What did Bilaam mean when he said this?
We see from this statement of Bilaam that he realized the truth that one should lead a righteous life. Why then did he himself not live righteously and only wished that he could die and be rewarded as the righteous?
Although Bilaam had an intellectual awareness of the proper way to live, in his own life he found this too difficult. Because he had faulty character traits, he was not able to live according to the ideas and principles he knew were true.
We see from here the importance of correcting one's character traits. Without an awareness of what is proper and what is improper one cannot live righteously. However, even after one has studied and knows what is good and what is evil, he must be able to follow through in his daily behavior. A person needs to be in control of his impulses. Having this mastery over one's natural tendencies will enable a person to live according to his ideals. Lacking this, one will do all kinds of improper actions.
The problem is not one of knowledge, but of self-discipline. For this reason we must work on improving our character traits for only then will we be able to act righteous. The only way to die as a righteous person is to live as one, and to do this takes much self-discipline.
Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves.
Kindness is in our power even when fondness is not.
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal -- Love leaves a memory no one can steal.
Shabbat Shalom!
Rabbi Ovadiah Tank
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Rabbi Tank is a professor at the American Jewish College of New York where he teaches classes on Talmud, Chassidism, Jewish History, Contemporary Jewish Law and Jewish Music. Rabbi Tank is dedicated to finding modern usefulness and meaning in ancient wisdom texts, providing spiritual, cultural, social and educational programming for communities around the world.
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